Samual's Journey: We Live!

So it has been a hot minute since I have posted. We have had a ridiculously busy past few months and by some miracle everything is finally starting to slow down.

In October, Samual turned two, Jd turned 32 and a vast number of my family flocked to Oklahoma for our commitment ceremony. We were blessed to have my best friend join us and officiate the ceremony which was super exciting as we haven't seen him since Samual was 8 months old. We were also blessed to get to spend my sisters 21st birthday with her while she was here! Samual got to see many family members he hadn't seen in a long time and even though it was a little over stimulating, he did enjoy himself.

Samual at our ceremony

November was mostly a time to get ready for the holidays, clean up from October and Jd with lots of overtime and not much time at home. Ah the joy of working in retail during the holidays. Also in November, Samual's occupational therapist had her baby a whole month early! This did throw Samual off at first but he survived through it better than I thought he would. She and baby are both healthy and she is now back from maternity leave which I think makes Samual pretty happy.

Samual at the zoo. Putting his fingers in his ears is a sign he is over stimulated.

December brought a multitude of busy and the beginning of the sick season. I got sick with bronchitis early on and Samual started to get terribly sick as well. He started to get a barking cough and it came on very quickly. Justin, N (Justins girlfriend) and I all rushed Samual to the hospital. He was diagnosed with croup and Samual was subjected to breathing treatments and an overnight stay at the hospital. I can honestly say that in this entire journey with Samual, that was the most helpless and defeated I have ever felt. About 2 weeks after being released, Samual was diagnosed with croup again but this time we were able to give him treatments at home.

December also happened to be a busy month of baby having in this family as Samual had 3 new baby cousins born in December. All 3 babies were born in different states within the same month so we haven't gotten to meet them all yet but Samual likes babies!

Christmas was wonderful and while Samual had some bumps in the road, he did love all the new toys. We tried our best to find him toys that would teach his purposeful play and I feel that we did fairly well. His occupational therapist is really pushing us to teach him purposeful play which will help him advance his imagination. To be honest I am still confused on all of this but it seems to be helping.

He loved his play kitchen. We had it all set out for him to find in the morning. He was overjoyed.

He has had some issues with wrapping paper in the past, we assume its a sensory issue so all his gifts came in bags this year. He loved opening each bag and finding something wonderful.

A couple weeks ago, Samual had his evaluation for speech therapy. His therapist said he is making great strides in his social skills and has improved most in that skill. His speech itself is still very delayed as well as his language understanding, however his non verbal communication skills have improved a ton! He won't have an evaluation in Occupational therapy until late summer but his therapists agree that he is making improvements. The therapists and I have been discussing the right time to have Samual tested for Autism however I feel that a whole post in itself and I will post it fairly soon.

Samual saw a nutritionist last week to discuss his diet and what things may help him improve as well as getting him to eat a wide variety of foods. We started him on a multivitamin with Omega-3 and DHA and are trying to incorporate more healthy foods into his diet. So far I have been unable to incorporate the flax seed that was highly recommended but I am going to keep trying to find ways to add it in.

I am recommitting to updating this more often so there are less posts this long! For now, I will leave you with some favorite photos from the last few months.